Ask Sarah: How much sex drive is normal for a girl?

How much sex drive is normal for a girl?

I’m a girl and my libido is really high! When I’m in a committed relationship, I always want sex.

Dear Sarah,

I’m a girl and my libido is really high! When I’m in a committed relationship, I always want sex. I have a more prominent libido than any girl I know. My past boyfriends couldn’t handle it. I’m kind of insecure about my sexual needs. My current man says he’s okay with it. How much sex drive is normal for a girl?

                                          

Dear anonymous,

There isn’t anything as “too much,” though some may argue there can be too little! It really seems like you’ve got the perfect situation – you enjoy having a lot of sex with someone you love, you’re in love and your partner is happy to help you fulfill the urgent need. I really wish I could say more on this, but I don’t see any problem with it.

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However, the misunderstanding that a woman’s sex drive is lower than a man is just that – a misconception. Many women have a higher libido than their man, especially as they get older. A man comes into his sexual peak in his early twenties, while a woman doesn’t come into her sexual peak until her thirties and even forties!

You may have had boyfriends in the past that judged you, but now you’re with someone who’s a better match for you sexually, and hopefully emotionally.

So, if your man is not just in the the mood, light some candles, take a hot, relaxing bath and have fun masturbating by yourself. There’s nothing wrong with a woman getting it on with herself, even when she’s in a relationship.

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And as far as you’re not banging random guys on the street corner, there’s nothing wrong with screwing your man’s brains out.

So, just relax and enjoy sex and your erotic libido with your man.

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